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First things first, get a big pot of water boiling. Make sure to salt it generously—like, really generously. I always tell myself it should taste like the ocean, but then I pull back a little, haha. This is where your pasta gets its first layer of flavor, and honestly, I always forget to salt the water enough! Cook your elbow macaroni according to package directions until it's al dente. You want it to still have a little bite since it’ll finish cooking in the sauce. Drain it well, don't rinse, and set it aside.
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Now for the magic! In a large, heavy-bottomed pot or Dutch oven, melt your butter over medium heat. Once it’s shimmering, sprinkle in the flour. Whisk, whisk, whisk! You want to cook this mixture, called a roux, for about 1-2 minutes until it smells a bit nutty and turns a light golden color. This step is crucial; cooking out the raw flour taste ensures your sauce will be silky smooth, not pasty. Don’t rush it, or you’ll regret it, I know I have!
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Slowly, gradually, pour in the cold whole milk, whisking constantly. This is key to avoiding lumps! Keep whisking as the sauce gently heats and thickens. It will go from watery to a beautiful, creamy consistency. You'll see it start to coat the back of your spoon. This part always smells so comforting, like a warm hug is coming. Don't let it boil rapidly, just a gentle simmer is what we're after!
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Once your béchamel is thick and bubbly, take it off the heat. Stir in the Dijon mustard, salt, pepper, and that tiny pinch of nutmeg. Give it a good stir to combine everything. This is where the foundation of your incredible creamy stovetop macaroni cheese flavor really comes alive. I sometimes add a little extra pepper here because I love that warmth.
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Now for the best part! Add your freshly grated sharp cheddar and Gruyere cheeses to the warm sauce. Stir continuously until all the cheese has melted into a glorious, smooth, velvety sauce. This is where the patience pays off, seriously. You don't want to add the cheese while the sauce is still on high heat, or it can get greasy. A gentle off-heat melt is the secret to perfection. Look at that beautiful, gooey deliciousness!
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Finally, add your drained elbow macaroni to the cheese sauce. Stir gently until every single piece of pasta is coated in that luscious, creamy goodness. Taste it and adjust any seasonings if needed. Sometimes I add a tiny bit more salt here, just to make sure it sings. Your creamy stovetop macaroni cheese should be glistening and incredibly inviting. Serve it up immediately, perhaps with a sprinkle of fresh chives or a dash of paprika, and prepare for pure comfort!